How I Went From $400/Month Impulse Buyer to Actually Having Savings (Without Feeling Deprived)

Last Tuesday, I was cleaning out my closet and found a sweater with the tags still on it. Price tag: $68. I remembered buying it six months ago during a "flash sale" because it was originally $120, so I was "saving money." That sweater has never been worn. It's the wrong color for me, doesn't fit quite right, and honestly, I have three similar sweaters already. But in that moment at 11 PM, scrolling through my phone after a stressful day at work, it felt like exactly what I needed. Sound familiar? Two years ago, I was spending about $400 a month on impulse purchases. Not big things—just a constant stream of "small" buys that seemed reasonable individually but were absolutely devastating to my financial goals collectively. Today, I have $8,000 in my savings account and I actually enjoy my purchases more than I ever did when I was buying everything that caught my eye. Here's how I made that shift without feeling like I was living in financial pri...